Moving into the new centre dragged on for months. One week it was happening, the next it wasn’t. In the meantime, we were working in what felt like a building site.
Most of the equipment hadn’t been installed, and the raised floor was still up in sections for cabling. For the first six months, just getting around the office felt like a game of hopscotch, stepping over gaps and trying not to disappear into the void.
Eventually, we did move in properly.
The first person I met there was Andrea. She was issuing security passes. I remember thinking she was a very attractive woman, but she was a bit distant, not unfriendly, just not giving much away. I left it at that.
A year or so later, she’d moved into a facilities role and started coming up to the fourth floor regularly to see Steve. By then, it was obvious she knew exactly how to handle a room full of men. Confident, playful, and more than capable of getting what she needed without much resistance.
She’d occasionally stop for a quick word with me, but not often. Truth be told, I didn’t have much she needed.
I used to sit opposite Sheila, the Project Director’s PA. We got on very well, and I probably talked far too much about the fact that I thought Andrea was rather special. After hearing this one too many times, Sheila eventually had enough.
It was just before Valentine’s Day when she said, “Why don’t you stop talking about it and just ask her out?”
Fair point.
So I did. I sent Andrea a note, and we met in the stairwell like a couple of teenagers avoiding being seen. We arranged to go out for a meal at a Chinese restaurant near where she lived.
There had been an earlier attempt at something resembling a date, though that didn’t go well. I’d made the tactical error of bringing Steve along, which resulted in Andrea quite understandably focusing her attention on him. I made a quiet exit from that one.
Valentine’s Day was different.
I picked her up from her house, and from the moment we got talking properly, everything just clicked. Conversation was easy, the sort where you forget about time and everything else going on around you.
From my point of view, we got on like a house on fire.
Andrea might tell that part slightly differently, of course.
The next day, I arrived at my desk to find a slice or two of angel cake waiting for me.
That, naturally, got the girls talking.
“Who is Angel Cake then?”
Sheila, bless her, was brilliant. She knew exactly what was going on, but kept the secret.
For a while, Andrea and I kept things quiet. We would meet at the nature reserve car park before I drove back to London, just for a quick snog and a few stolen minutes together. It all felt slightly ridiculous, but also wonderfully exciting.
After about a year of secretive dates, we went to a Christmas party at TGI’s, which had become the project team’s favourite night out. It was a great evening, and eventually I made my excuses because I had to drive back to London. Andrea made some excuse of her own, and we met outside in the car park.
We were having a long snog when one of the team walked out and caught us.
That was it. Cover blown.
He went straight back inside and spilled the beans. There was no hiding it after that, so we simply became a normal-ish couple, although the London problem was always there. I still had to keep driving back.
Andrea had been having problems with her ankle for ages after falling down a pothole in a car park. Eventually, she got a date for surgery and asked if I would stay with her afterwards to help her get about safely.
Naturally, I was only too happy to assist.
In fact, I only went back to London to give up my flat and move in with Andrea properly.
Then one day, I was sitting at the computer when an email arrived in my inbox.
It was from Andrea.
She was asking me to marry her.










